I would ask her to come to church as a present for you on your birthday.  Tell her that is all that you want.  Of course we will pray for your precious mother.  That the Holy Spirit will work a miracle in her life and open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  That she will realize that the only thing that is holding her back from a relationship with Jesus is her pride.  We pray that she just let go and let the Lord Jesus into her heart so that she can truly begin to live a real life of purpose and eternal love.  That she will come to the realization that this will only happen when she reaches out to Jesus and accepts Him as her Lord and Savior.  That her love for her family will be the catapult that leads her into the fullness of Jesus Christ.  In the name of Jesus we agree on this, Amen and Amen.  God bless you!!! <3